by bianca | Apr 21, 2015 | personal
It’s been said that time is what we want the most, but what we use the worst. Though the sentiment is real, I refuse to believe this is how we have to live. Life is cyclical. Like the children of Israel, we return to deserts, find new Promise Lands, have moments...
by bianca | Jan 5, 2014 | Being Fat, personal, Struggles
Who wrote down their new year’s resolutions? Don’t be shy now. Raise your hands. Now how many of you wrote down I want to lose weight as one of your goals? Friends, this is a safe place and you’re not alone [she said as she raised both hands]. I...
by bianca | Jun 11, 2013 | culture, personal, pop culture
If I’m being honest with you, I walked into marriage with the delusional fact that Matt and I were insanely compatible. Friends, we were so compatible, eHarmony matched our profiles of the thousands upon thousands of weird people swimming in the online sea of...
by bianca | May 12, 2013 | church, culture, ministry, personal
Dear Stepmoms, I see you. It’s Mother’s Day and I just want to let you know that I see you. I celebrate you alongside bio-moms, grand-moms, adopted-moms, and want-to-be-moms. Adopted parents—like stepparents—know the feeling of melding hearts...
by bianca | Apr 10, 2013 | culture, personal
No one ever tells you what marriage is going to look like after you say, I do. After the unity candle is lit, the vows are exchanged, and you walk down the aisle as man and wife, what happens next? The professional married people make it look so easy. What are...