Stone hedge, red hair, and a female Princess doing Brave things in a story told by Pixar? Sign me up! I’m an unabashed supporter of Pixar and all things Disney. If I’m being completely honest with you, part of the allure of marrying a man with kids is having an ever-present reason to watch animated films. But I digress.

Brave challenged a number of Pixar first—first female protagonist, first princess, first fairy tale—but I find it odd that most people aren’t mentioning this in reviews. Focus on the Family to CrossWalk to Movies.com write this movie off as a family-friendly, slap-stick animated film with a blatant message encouraging all daughters to love, listen, and learn from their mother. Pretty awesome, right?

It is if you’re a mom.

However, rather than focus on family values like many of the critics, I found the shift in traditional storytelling interesting. Specifically in the passive paternal male, traditionally-valued mother, and spirited ginger with fiery locks as feisty as her personality who defies traditional gender roles.

As a 21st woman who studied Feminist literature, art, and history, I watched this story unfold differently. Merida—the fiery princess—is on the cusp of adulthood and throne succession. But the royal responsibility and expectations of domesticity and childbearing isn’t her royal cup of tea. She doesn’t want to be married and there isn’t hint of a male suitor throughout the 90 minute movie [which is quite different than previous Disney princesses—and dare I say women 20 years ago].

Before anyone hangs me in the Feminist Hall of Shame, I want to clarify that I’m not advocating we go back to  the paradigm of women waiting to be rescued by Prince Charming on a horse, with great teeth, and perfect hair. But I’m not sure our next generational option should be a runaway female who tries to change her fate by evoking a curse to thwart off marriage.

There’s something quite dramatic about both of those plot lines. And I’m extremely dramatic, so if I say something is dramatic, believe me [as I put my waging finger, arched eyebrow, and flamboyant attitude back in their corner].

Pixar’s ambitious story wanted to portray a female protagonist as brave. But bravery isn’t one action or one choice or one decision. All the heroes of Pixar’s blockbusters like Wall-E, Nemo, and Woody made conscious, concerted, continuous efforts not only to be brave, but to do brave things. Why? Because heroes make daily choices to live for things bigger than themselves.

My father may not be screenwriter but his US Marine Corp training taught him that a hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself. I would love to tell all girls in the movie theater I sat in that being a princess is awesome and a heritage we already possess as daughters of the King [that was SO women’s ministry!], but life is more than looking pretty, wearing crowns, and fighting for whether or not we will get married. Our life matters when we give it up for others.

That, my dear friends, is being Brave.

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