I’m on my hotel bed, the sounds of sirens and honking cabs keep me from sleeping though it’s pass midnight. There’s a world out there yet to be discovered and I cower on a bed reading your comments about doing what you’d love to do without the fear of failing. The irony of the previous blog post lies on the bed like I do; awake and staring at the truth. I didn’t have the courage to write down my 100 words because I still fear my dreams are too big, too outlandish, too unnecessary. But that’s a lie.
Your dreams are merely text on my computer screen, but they are alive and loud and real and inspired me to think about what I want to dream of next. Thank you for believing in the journey process and documenting this moment. Now that our dreams are out there, I wanted to share an article by Paulo Coelho. It’s a bit long but totally worth it.
Thank you for sharing your dreams. I pray they become our reality…
You are in a store. You try on a garment that fits you perfectly. You try on another, but it’s too large. It itches a bit, the sleeves drag on the floor. Both garments sell for the same price. Which do you buy?
It isn’t a trick question: You should buy the one that fits better, of course. This logic can also apply to the way we decide to live our lives. We know intuitively that there is a life we long to have, a dream we’ve harbored – sometimes since childhood. But too often we decide to follow a path that really isn’t our own, one that others have set for us. We forget that whichever way we go, the price is the same: In both cases, we will pass through difficult and happy moments, hours of solitude, and many complex situations. But when we are living our dreams, the difficulties we encounter, make sense.
You may have heard the parable of the three men laboring in the field of rocks. Each is asked what he is doing. The first man says, “Can’t you see? I’m breaking rocks!” The second man replies “Can’t you see? I’m earning my salary!” The third man answers, his eyes gleaming with enthusiasm, “Can’t you see? I’m building a cathedral!” This lovely story, which my mother first told me when I was a child, illustrates both the necessity of hard work in realizing a dream, as well as the need to keep the vision in your mind’s eye – even when the others don’t see or understand it.The money we receive in return for our eight hours of work each day can be spent any number of ways; the only thing we cannot buy is extra time. So, during the minutes we have, I believe it is better to live a dream rather than to simply dream it. The dream is the start of something greater, something that impels us to make daring decisions. And it’s true that the person who pursues a dream takes many risks. But the person who does not, run risks that are even greater.
Love you.
That is all.
What are your dreams Bianca?
I bet you fit them perfectly…
My pastor used that parable in a sermon last week. Or maybe it was someone at Catalyst. I’m not sure. I’m too tired. Either way, when I hear something good, I remember it. When I hear it twice, I start to pay attention. Guess I’ll wake up now and pay attention!
Paulo Coelho wrote my favorite book The Alchemist… & i listen to it on audio very often… i love him!!! 🙂 The thing i’m learning about my dreams is that they are showing me who I truly am as a person. Taking a huge risk in quitting my job & starting my business has been terrifying… to say the least. i don’t think i’ve enjoyed the process as much as i should due to my fears & worries, but i know it will all work together for my good. i’m going to continue to dream big. dreaming small is not an option. 😉 xo
Thank you so much for sharing this. I finally learned to say out loud my dream… at least part of it. Just speaking it out loud to someone else has helped me set in motion the amazing things to make it happen. My husband is also running head first at his dream and I couldn’t be prouder. It is one of the most terrifying things- to risk, to share, to live it all. But I am watching my children watching us chase, push, pull each other and support each other and I am watching my children’s dreams grow and change as well. I am seeing them become not just what they want to work at someday but what would be fun, make them happy, and be fufilling. That in itself makes the fear worth it….