A single person recently asked, How do you know if you’re suppose to marry a particular person? Like, what are the signs that you are making a good decision?
The greatest advice I can give is this:
The way a man loves God is the way he will love you.
The way a woman loves God is the way she will love you.
If someone is cerebral about their approach to God, they will be cerebral in their approach to loving you. If someone is passionate about serving God, they will be passionate about serving you. If a person is apathetic towards their commitment to God, they will eventually be apathetic towards their commitment to you.
Chose wisely. We’re only supposed to get one shot.
If you have great dating advice [or hilarious stories], feel free to share. It’s Friday… let’s party!
Basically, don´t do anything with him/her that you would not do in front of you mom!
wow… what an awesome message… it made me tear up… i love it… I'm actually reading lots of books (one that you recommeded) to really be sure if I want to marry my boyfriend of 5 years… this message really hit the heart! I'm trying to this the right way.. I dont want rush and I dont want to have to later on get a divorce… I am seeking God and I'm seeking answers
Wow. I have never seen this put quite so succinctly and so profoundly. Thank You for sharing your thoughts.
great advice. as a single myself, i say thanks! 🙂
good points…if i would have stuck to that from the beginning, my husband and i may not have struggled so much…so blessed with my husband..but it's been a rocky journey, let me tell you:)
So true!
I dated a guy for almost 3 years and we were never quite "sure" if we were supposed to get married. After we broke up, I met a guy a year and a half later, and I KNEW within the first month. It was crazy! I mean what's up with that when people say, "I just knew." But I did. The only way that I can describe that is that the "knowing" wasn't complicated and analytical like things are usually for me….there was just peace.
I really appreciate your realness and openess about dating! I really struggle being single in the church; particularly in the singles ministry!! I am 31 and have to constantly remind myself that I can use this time to learn from the marriages around me instead of seperating myself into the "single groups". Great reminder!
So good. thank you!
What a great message to read, especially when I'm constantly bombarded with people telling me to "keep an open mind." That "God wants me to be happy" and "to not limit myself" when I say I'm looking for a man who loves the Lord. In their minds they mean well, but they do not know my God. Thanks for the reminder. It's tough to be 30 and still single (effectively never even having a boyfriend in my life), but I will continue to wait on Him and him because God is preparing the best for me.
I needed to see your post! I needed to know that I am not the only one that is 30 and never had a "boyfriend" in my life! I just know God has someone wonderful for us both! We will both keep waiting on Him!
so inspired by your truth, girl! i'm almost 25 and have never had a boyfriend and only been on a few dates total by choice. I am holding out for the man God will bring if He brings one. I don't want to settle for anyone less and I know God would not want it any other way for us, if we'd just faithfully wait on Him like you, I and select other are doing. Press on, sister in Christ!! so encouraged I'm not the only one! 🙂
Thanks, its usefully for me.
Marriage and Dating Advice: If its work when you're dating, then it will be war when you're married! A relationship should not be full of drama nor should it be one of always wondering, if you should be with them! If you're unsure it is a huge probability that the answer is NO…you shouldnt be witht them—much less marry them! 🙂
Having gotten married about 8 months ago, I've found that an incredibly important quality in a Christian man is for him to have a moldable heart – a heart that isn't defensive when you use the Word to call him out and who's then willing to change his heart based on what the authority of Scripture says.
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Thanks for the post. My best dating advice is…"Be a person worth finding."
Great post, Bianca! I shared this with a single friend today! It really does contain so much wisdom. 🙂
Im in tears reading this because its amaazing advice… it can save so much trouble and heart ache.. im dating someone for a while and really am praying if its the right one and the one GOD wants for me. 🙂 Thanks Bianca
Great advice! Keep preachin' girlfriend.
🙂 🙂 🙂
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