by bianca | Jun 4, 2013 | church, culture, ministry, Speaking, Teaching
Relationships are hard to navigate. Whether it’s men or women or bosses or superstars you have a crush on, there isn’t a manual per se on how be—well, be normal. Are you an over-sharer? Do you stand in the corner and stare at people at parties until...
by bianca | Apr 29, 2013 | church, ministry, personal, Speaking, Teaching
He would shout from the stands when no one else would. Screaming and coaching like he was the team manager. Play like the Germans, he would say, Good-en-Tight! His accent was thick and identifiable over any other fathers who politely cheered for their daughters on the...
by bianca | Apr 24, 2013 | church, culture, personal, pop culture, Speaking
It has been said, a wise man can learn more from a foolish question than a fool can learn from a wise answer. Since as far back as I can remember, I was always the child with questions. Why is God invisible? Why is that man sleeping under the freeway? Why do I have to...
by bianca | Apr 3, 2013 | culture, ministry, personal, Speaking, Teaching
There’s nothing traditional about it. There was no bible, no worship team, no fog machine or lighting rigs. Just a taxi cab and an unknown man. Traveling for work means early-hour flights and late-night returns with the help of the occasional taxi transport. On...
by bianca | Mar 26, 2013 | personal, Speaking
Maybe I was an insecure child growing up. Or maybe I was neurotic. Or maybe I was both. But was I the only kid that worried about throwing a birthday party and no one showing up? As a child I would decorate the backyard, mix fruit punch, and stare at my cake wishing,...
by bianca | Feb 21, 2013 | church, culture, ministry, Speaking, Teaching
Three years ago I gathered a group of young, influential women around my dining room table and asked what worked and what didn’t work within women’s ministry. The answers varied from outdated to passé. But one voice cut through the others. The girl I...