by bianca | Jan 21, 2013 | personal
Two and a half years of marriage is the litmus test of normalcy. No longer do we dispute about who left the toothpaste cap off the tube or the right way to hang toilet paper. Nope, now our conversations are mature, honest, and oh-so-real. We joke about how I...
by bianca | Jan 3, 2013 | church, ministry, personal
We sat around the dining room table at my parents house on Christmas morning watching my step-kids, Parker and Ryen, open their presents and build cities and fortresses out of plastic blocks we affectionately know as Legos. We laughed as my mother reminded me that I...
by bianca | Dec 12, 2012 | church, ministry, personal, Speaking
Like a weathered pair of boots. Like a morning bed. Like a leather glove. Somethings just fit well. From the moment I touched down in Albuquerque, New Mexico to the moment I flew away, I felt like family. To be honest, I didn’t know if it was commonplace to...
by bianca | Dec 6, 2012 | culture, personal
How do you handle being a step-parent, full-time employee, wife, and friend. I’m a new stepmom and I feel like I don’t have balance. You seem to be doing it so well, so cough it up! What are your secrets. –Jen, Wisconsin Jen from Wisconsin, if...
by bianca | Nov 26, 2012 | church, ministry, personal, Speaking
Warning: I may get uber spiritual right now. Just bear with me. I don’t like when people get super mystical about prayer. I never have. I can vividly remember a lady from church acting like she was telling ghost stories when she would recount prayers being...
by bianca | Nov 2, 2012 | church, culture, ministry, personal
A trademark characteristic of my generation is building. Building a name, a legacy, a platform, a voice. It’s a noble attribute and one that has opened many doors for those venturing on pathways unmarked and treaded upon. We laud Mark Zuckerberg and Tavi...