by bianca | Apr 24, 2013 | church, culture, personal, pop culture, Speaking
It has been said, a wise man can learn more from a foolish question than a fool can learn from a wise answer. Since as far back as I can remember, I was always the child with questions. Why is God invisible? Why is that man sleeping under the freeway? Why do I have to...
by bianca | Apr 16, 2013 | culture, Giveaway, ministry
The door was heavy and the knob was stuck. No matter what how I pulled or prodded, yanked or turned, nothing moved. In my frustration, I kicked the door hoping to channel my inner Chuck Norris and free me from the vintage walk-in closet I was stuck in. Over and over I...
by bianca | Apr 15, 2013 | culture, Giveaway
Double fisting. That’s what I call it. Two books, one in each hand. It drives people crazy, but it gives me comfort. In one hand I have warmth and comfort and soul food; in the other I have pushing and pulling and revealing. For a solid week I laid in bed with...
by bianca | Apr 10, 2013 | culture, personal
No one ever tells you what marriage is going to look like after you say, I do. After the unity candle is lit, the vows are exchanged, and you walk down the aisle as man and wife, what happens next? The professional married people make it look so easy. What are...
by bianca | Apr 3, 2013 | culture, ministry, personal, Speaking, Teaching
There’s nothing traditional about it. There was no bible, no worship team, no fog machine or lighting rigs. Just a taxi cab and an unknown man. Traveling for work means early-hour flights and late-night returns with the help of the occasional taxi transport. On...
by bianca | Mar 21, 2013 | church, culture, ministry, personal
I have no shame in admitting that I’m one for some reality television. Whether it’s HoneyBooBoo, Lisa Vanderpump, or Snooki, I’ve been open about my affinity to giving an occasional mazel to bad acting, horrible plot lines, and exploitation of people...