on homeschooling…
Dear Mom, You never sent me to preschool, but I learned my ABCs and 123s. I never enrolled in kindergarten, but I learned colors and shapes. I never attended elementary school or middle school, but I learned so much more than anyone could have ever taught me because...
read morethe one…
I really don’t know how to start this post. There’s no great introduction other than being honest—but honesty is scary and unnerving and revealing. But that’s what I need to be right now. Revealing. On Sunday night I spoke to an auditorium full...
read more100 words: contentment…
Paul made it clear when he wrote in 1 Timothy 6:6, Godliness accompanied with contentment [that contentment which is a sense of inward sufficiency] is great and abundant gain. The bible teaches us to be content no matter what our circumstances may be. The apostle Paul...
read morecool factor…
City life always makes me like I’m somehow cool. The buildings, lights, taxi cabs, and social life ooze cool like the steam rising from the street pot holes. It’s as if magically I morph into a city socialite who is all grown up. And then something occurs...
read morechicago, conferences, and clowns…
Bust out the lights, red lipstick, and jazz hands, I’m going to Chicago! Having only traveled to Chicago once before, I feel like I am going to be able to redeem my first experience by actually being able to see the city… even if only for a day. I’ll...
read morefavorite mistake…
I know people who live in a constant state of regret. They question every move, lament every decision, and want a rewind option for life. I know this because I AM that person. Sometimes I think I’m Jewish because I’m positive I could complain for 40 years...
read morericci, fear, and us…
He was terrified. Petrified, actually. He shook violently in Matt’s arms for half an hour after the incident. Ricci, our five pound, eight month old Dachshund, was finishing his nightly walk when he turned the corner of our block to be met by two, huge K9 dogs...
read moreweathering the storms…
We’ve all faced storms in life. Some are like the short bursts of warm rain, common in tropical islands like Hawaii. And others—well, they can feel like category four hurricanes when at any given moment you might get washed away. If I’ve learned...
read moreto infinity and beyond…
I’ve never been a pot-smoking hippy. I’ve never dropped acid. In fact, I’ve never even smoked a cigarette. As a self-diagnosed control freak, the thought of being under a mind-altering substance gives me anxiety with an insatiable urge to breathe...
read morehunger games, peeta mellark, and shedding tears…
After a year and a half of marriage Me: [alone in the closet past midnight reading the last book of the Hunger Games trilogy] I can’t believe it ended! I can’t believe it ended. I can’t believe it ended… [crying commences] Bianca: [crying in...
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